Бывают такие некрасивые ситуации в жизни, когда вопрос:...

There are such ugly situations in life when the question: "well, why don't you do like NN?" - Essentially means: "Well, why aren't you * a punch?" - but the fact is that sometimes it’s easier to accept such * foolish behavior, instead of good, fair and very difficult to tolerate (especially against another person). I think sometimes we all want to be the only object of attention and care.