Когда видишь, как работает #круглаяметодика, часто отвисает #челюсть....

When you see how # the round method works, # the jaw often sags. I experienced this for the first time at a university where we were invited to make a presentation. We put the professors and students in mixed # circles and suggested discussing the # vision of development for the next 5 years. At first, no one understood anything: they say, what should we discuss with THESE ?! Just like in that joke: “prostitutes,” # students thought. “Students,” # prostitutes thought. But #game is a game, and word for word began # conversation. Open, equal, trusting, between people who so far have communicated only through a screen # of set-offs or formal rules. On the second lap, we already saw one hundred percent #group # rapport: # tilt of the case to the center of the circle, # relaxed symmetrical # faces, attentive # glances, nobody interrupts. Instead of the 20 minutes allotted to us, we worked 2 hours, because there were no people to break. They went out as friends, they first recognized # people in each other. Years have passed since then, and I began to look at it as ordinary, yes, about like that # prostitute))) But even greater miracles were waiting ahead. Imagine my surprise and delight when I discovered that inside each of us there is also such a party of poorly familiar entities: each of our # dreams, each # profession, which we tried on ourselves, but in the end did not get, every relationship that we have were ... Each true, and even more - each imaginary # value that we profess - is a part of our personality. And sacramental for me was that these parts of the personality can also be put in # circles !!! And establish between them # dialogue. What # schizophrenia comes to mind? Yeah, it just ends when a rapport appears between the parts. But before that, if not schizophrenia, then a multiple personality is a completely everyday diagnosis. Not everyone knows how to activate the # agreement of the parts of the person themselves. Not everyone knows how to identify them, which is already there. Even if you are an experienced schizophilitator, it is still easier to do this with the help of an operator. But the main thing is # the results that are possible due to the rapport between the parts: # the end of the # pens, the accuracy and integrity of the decisions, # the abundance of forces for solving problems. And you know that, I came to the conclusion that #the techniques of working with parts of the person and # the round technique are actually the same thing, simply either inside the unconscious, or in the form of transferring internal categories to external carriers. Reminds # more Hellinger settings. In general, whatever you use: group circles or personal therapy, it's about the same thing: mutual understanding and mutual support between conflicting properties. This is the whole wisdom of the #Universe: after all, there are no contradictions in it, everything is perfect ...