Про свадьбу Женюсь! Или не женюсь.....Разговор с женихом:...

About the wedding
Getting married! Or not getting married ..... Conversation with the groom:

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Here, I made an offer to her, I’ll get married!
- What for?
- What why"? Marry? Love is with us!
- What does LOVE have to do with government registration of marriage under our anti-male law? Who forbids you to love?
- Well ... she insisted ...
- Do you agree to satisfy all babskie Wishlist? And what about your OWN desires and interests?
- Well, how ... uh, I want children.
-Children do not appear at all from going to the registry office.
- Uh, well, that’s how it should be!
-By whom?
- ... .. uh-uh.
- Well, what do you get when you enter into an official marriage?

“Well ... how ... a wife.”
- You are mistaken. Under current law, your wife is not only not obliged to keep faithfulness to you, but is also not obliged to live with you. Not even having sex with you. So what do you get?
- Well ... family.
- What is this "family"?
- Uh, normal, patriarchal.
- What kind of patriarchy are we talking about if a husband in such a “family” has no rights at all and no rights with regard to offspring?
- What rights?
- None. You cannot make your wife pregnant and give birth, you cannot forbid her to have an abortion if she wants to have one. Women make all reproductive decisions in Russia individually. You do not have the protection of your own property interests. You have no right to your own children. You do not even have the right to regular sex or to defend your honor in the event of adultery or pregnancy not from you.
- How is this “pregnancy not from me”? How dare she ?!
- Easy. Up to 30% of official fathers in Russia raise, without suspecting it, foreign children. Of course, no one will publish the exact data, otherwise you yourself understand what will begin.
- She talks about guarantees of a long-term relationship!
- WHOSE WARRANTIES? Her? And what do you get guarantees? And what "durability"
relationship, you say, if 4 out of 5 marriages breaks up in the first 5 years of married life.
“I did not know ... but she loves me.” He says he loves!
“She will love you less without a stamp in her passport?” Why would a registry office really love you? Do you know that it is wives who initiate 75-80% of divorces?
- N-no, I didn’t know. But she needs, as she says, confidence. You see, we just planned to get married, then sell my "kopeck piece", join a mortgage and buy a "three rubles".
“You can't think of a stupider.”
- But why?!
- After you buy a three-ruble coin in marriage, it, like everything you acquire, will be considered “jointly acquired” property and should be divided in half in the event of a divorce.
- But after all, “dvushka” was presented to me by my parents, 90% of the cost of the future “treshka” is money from the sale of my apartment, and only I will work!
- Courts in Russia are not interested in this: treshka was acquired in marriage? So in half. Moreover, the Supreme Court created a precedent by which a judge can even derogate from the ratio of "50 to 50", of course, "in the interest of children." The vast majority of judges are women. Guess from three times in whose favor their decisions will be.
- I'm in shock! Well, if I sign a marriage contract?
- Marriage does not have absolutely no power in Russia, it can easily be declared null and void if, in the opinion of the judge, he “greatly violates the interests of one of the parties.” So why are you getting married?
- That ... the children had all the rights. So that they have an official father.
- Typical legal illiteracy: children's rights, your official paternity, inheritance rights of children DO NOT depend on whether a marriage was made or not.
“But she told me ... And my father’s rights?”
- In Russia, fathers de facto do not have rights. In the event of a divorce (and 60-83% of them), 98% of children are automatically left with their mothers, 70% of ex-wives impede the communication of children with fathers with impunity.
“I'll sue.”
- The court will award you 1 hour of communication with the child per week, and your ex-wife will take him to another city to his parents or simply will not open the door. Your actions?
- Yes ... I ... I will stop paying child support!
- From the official salary they will be deducted automatically in accounting. If you run around, they will describe the property or even put you in jail. And so that you would be frisky, so in 2008 the penalty for late payments of alimony increased by 5 times. Yes, if you are planning to sell a car or an apartment - and do not forget to pay child support from this.
- Incredible!
- The fact. Alimentary chaos is constantly and methodically increasing.
“But can I at least make sure that all child support goes to the child?”
- Not. In Russia, the woman’s spending of alimony is still completely uncontrolled.
“And that she spends the same amount on a child,” can I at least make sure of this?
- The law does not provide for such an opportunity.
“Well ... what if the child stays with me?”
- Unlikely. It's easier to win the lottery: a year in Russia, 124 thousand lawsuits are considered about the child’s place of residence, but as before, 98% of children are almost automatically left with their mothers.
“I ... I didn't know all this.” But ... what should I do? If I say now that I am not getting married, she will be offended, I will be guilty, and our relationship will deteriorate!
- You see, you have not managed to get married yet, but