-Я вас, психологов, люблю, ценю и уважаю, но...

-I love you, psychologists, appreciate and respect you, but I don’t believe in the power of conversations; all your actions are some kind of magic for me.
-It is not in conversation.
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Approximately such a dialogue took place some time ago between me and a friend of mine.

What is it about today?
Yes, I just want to speak out ?????????????
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ABOUT POWER OF THE WORD,
or How did I become a leader ????

In the air of all social networks hovering #successful success
And ... it’s already beginning to suffocate with its cloying pink-marshmallow look - all that, it’s straight, magically - cribble-crab-boom! - and "you are such a crazy empress, running along the waves of the Pacific Ocean, and hair develops behind your back" ...

Yeah ... ???? SchaZzzZz ... ????????

In the vast majority of cases, all this “marshmallow”, if you dig a little bit, look behind the screen, the scenery is fake ...
That dress is from the sponsor store, and therefore - "a minute of advertising! ????????",
... then, "Right now, I’ll teach you how to earn a million in the evening! But first, tell me, have all 100 participants already paid 10k for participation? .. Ok, I'm starting to tell you" - ????????
... then "buy likes / subscribers quickly and cheaply" ❤️ ????
... then ...

Yes, all sorts of "that" ...
... before glamor with gloss were in only magazines, now - from all channels ...

And, like, where does all this “tinsel” come from - it’s not a secret for a long time, and with your mind you understand that 90% is flawed, but ... due to the dominance of all these spotlights #the famous and the intoxication from contemplation #successful "vision", sometimes, anyway, sits down, and you begin to look more meticulously at yourself:
... everything is over !, and I still are not on the Lamborghini, but on the subway ?!

And ... somehow the slonkers lose the feeling that you are REALLY doing it all right.
FOR REASONABLE! ☝️

And, even when people come and say:
“Cool!”, “Bravely!”, “Well done!” ...
... but you, blinded by all the external fake radiance, open your eyes in surprise and ask with dumb exclamations: "Are you kidding me?! .. What's cool?! .. Do you know what stress I live every day ?! .. I would sit exactly on the pope in the hiring - stability, you know! .. And here - the sixteen-armed sixteen! .. And still do not have time! "
... and pens, all of these sixteen, so everything goes lower and lower, and the thought "Why the hell am I involved in all this? !! ​​.." everything is spinning in my head more obsessively and intrusively ...

And it is very important at this moment to see clearly! ..
... that everything is fine with you!
... everything is even GOOD! ????

And the difficulties ... - well, damn it! - this is normal!
There is not a single great empire that could grow overnight and without a hitch!
Not! Simply no.
It doesn’t happen like that.
Learn the story so that marketing noodles about quick successful success flow faster from yours ????
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While the country was moving away from New Year's Eve, on the morning of January 1, in three business chats I wrote a message saying that I really want Santa Claus to give me a wise financial mentor ???? ✨

Naive? .. ????
Yes, figs! ????
When there is nothing to lose, you can go for any folly ????
It won’t work - well, okay!
It works - cool! - then everything is correct ????

Three people responded ????????

Of course, no one handed me the “Magic Pill” ... ????????
But ... I talked with all three.
Everyone looked at the situation from their point of view and gave some comments and recommendations.

But the most important thing that I received from the discussions was, of course, not direct recommendations, but ... namely, INTERNAL UNDERSTANDING:
"Yes! ALREADY BEAUTIFUL! Don’t dare to discount all your investments in the Case! Employees trusted you, believe in you! Why are you writing off yourself? !! .. Only forward! You will find a way to combine their abilities and professional talents with the needs and needs of clients, so that there will be more BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE in the world, from which the WORLD will be BEAUTIFUL. Just go and continue to do it! And ... blood, corns, broken nails - in the literal and figurative sense - this is a passing thing : heals, grows. Just KEEP! Cope! "

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Why, as an illustration for the post, a photograph of Miki?
Yes, everything is simple ...
We walked now ... and she jumped.
Collia, curb.
And my old animal, which barely walks, decided to jump over! ????????
Undershoot...
Shork ...
... unpleasant and, obviously, even painful ...
But she climbed on and went on ...
My "persistent tin soldier" ????

But ... it’s not even about Mickey’s stamina ...
... the point is in my own involuntary reaction to her fall.
Instead of "Caution!" - as was most of my life ...
... the cry was "Hold on!" ✊
This is precisely the change in the paradigms of reactions to danger that occurred in my head in recent years: instead of a reaction of fear, a reaction of struggle.

Just work on yourself.
Just hard labor on yourself.
You just take and change the words ➡️ reactions ➡️ attitudes ➡️ thinking ➡️ behavior ➡️ life.
Just plowing over yourself.
And ... no "magic" ????

P.S.
And I, the leader, really, took place - people want to work with me: in the last four days alone, as many as four people wanted to join my team