Позавчера на пляже наблюдала картину, которая не выходит...

The day before yesterday on the beach I watched a picture that does not go out of my head. In short, we will talk about people of the old school who do not understand what they are doing with children. A 3-year-old child enthusiastically plays in the sand, the girl gradually moves closer to the sea during the game. When she came close and began to play with the sand in a quietly oncoming wave, her bathing grandmother began to shout at the child in the style of "Come out immediately" the girl by the hand and, in addition to the rest of the abuse, utters the enchanting word "SHOULDER". I was already caught! A lot of questions at once: is a child at 3 years old able to realize what conscience is? Did grandmother even try to explain it to her before? Stopudovo not and would not have worked! But we can shout and scold the child for the lack of an unconscious quality. I just feel sorry for the girl. If for some reason she cannot swim, then at least play together on the beach so that your granddaughter is not offended, so no, you have to go into the water and SWEEP yourself. Something tells me that the shameless is not a girl at all.
And I observe similar things at sea every day, then parents reproach children for the lack of inexplicable qualities, then grandmothers growl at grandchildren WITHOUT EXPLANATION why what the child is doing is BAD. Very rarely there is a conversation, an explanation. Sadness. And after all, nothing can be done about it, if you tell someone, they will not listen, because the brains are stupidly lazy to turn on. I sincerely sympathize with children who, after such "upbringing", become traumatic and then receive reproaches on the topic "WHY ARE YOU SO". Sorry for the verbosity, it hurt.