Есть такая штука, называется она нетворкинг. Грубо говоря,...

There is such a thing, it is called networking. Roughly speaking, the search and establishment of the necessary connections. Previously, it was considered shameful to use connections for the sake of achieving their own goals, such people were considered “thieves” and treated them badly (although no one ever refused to do so, except especially principled fanatics of pseudo-morality). You need to use networking, in short. until you are ready to ask for something and give something in return, you will not achieve half of what you want. "