[id522669|Мария], Маш, я каждый день задаю себе вопрос,...

[id522669 | Maria], Mash, every day I ask myself the question how my child should grow and each time I can not find an answer to it. I think you should forbid him to play the iPad (which he himself has long abandoned), watch cartoons (which I carefully select), eat chocolates (would you see the happiness on the child’s face when he receives a chocolate bar :)) and the like, but what will it lead to? I bought a bunch of books that I force myself to read with my child every day, day and evening (I hope he becomes a book lover and will read, unlike his mother :)). I try to buy only developing (wooden / living) toys that are similar to those that we had in childhood. I try to take out the countryside more often to nature, because it is there that he runs barefoot through the grass, through puddles, plays a lot with water, gets dirty and walks again, has picnics and builds sand castles (he bought a whole playground for him in the DR :) I hope to appreciate ... I try even at home to do something with my own hands! But I don’t know how my son will grow up. And most importantly, is it necessary to go so violently against the tide? Do I need to grow a person different from everyone else? He can live in this new world, he also communicates with these new people, first go to the garden, then to school, then to university and finally to work .... The modern world is unthinkable without technological and technical innovations, so bad is that a child gets to know them from childhood? He will need to use a computer at work (now nothing is done without a computer). We live in the era of the Internet and our children will live in an even more highly technological environment .... nothing can be done about it. It seems to me that it is not necessary to prohibit and limit the child in this, the main thing is to educate the culture inside with your example. The culture of reading good books, the culture of taste for food, clothing, music, cinema, art, travel, people in the end ... Children are our reflection. I now see this very clearly by my niece ... And yet, all that you have outlined here is idelano falls on the village, how children are raised in the village, where there are no computers, no TVs, where there’s plenty of current and korbaliki by streams ..... but where are these grown people from the villages? Ged are they now? when drive adults? I mean, that children growing in a metropolis should never be the same as described in the article ... unfortunately.