Сегодня была на встрече с Екатериной Мурашовой. Я...

Today I was at a meeting with Ekaterina Murashova. I really love her books, read them like fairy tales ???? And the meeting was amazing ✨ She’s cosmic ✨ She is so unusually building a dialogue, has a wonderful sense of humor, a little awkward, but she has crazy energy! Many times she perplexed Tanya (Tutta Larsen), and at the beginning it was very noticeable how difficult the dialogue was. We talked about a lot, but you won’t get any exact advice from Ekaterina ???? She says this: "I am not a methodologist. Each mother decides for herself how the world of her child will be arranged, and she is right." Whatever system you introduce, no matter how you build your upbringing, everything is correct when your mother is comfortable. Two things that Murashova sets aside are not to lie to the child, preferably never, as little as possible, especially in the feelings. And the second is not to rush from one technique to another, this is the child’s direct road to neurosis. When today is one, tomorrow they listened to the other and rushed to do like him. You need to listen to yourself. They chose the path "spoon on the forehead", then continue it. The child will quickly orient when and for what he receives. Everything is allowed, approx. But you can’t interfere with everything in a heap, now and then. We also talked a lot about intellects. And as always with the bright, colorful stories of Catherine. She is, of course, a wonderful storyteller! I didn’t just choose this photo. Different types of intelligence are drawn on it: intellectual, physical, social, emotional. It was said that today's children have large gaps with emotional intelligence. They do not know how to read emotions, reactions of other people, do not understand what they want from them. That 200 years ago it was just the children who perfectly developed emotional intelligence, but everything was bad with the intellectual. There were many children in the families, but they watched, knew when the father and mother are in a good mood, how they behave in different situations, and when and what is best to do. Now the situation has changed dramatically. Children in three years can know the alphabet and spy in several languages, but do not understand and do not read the reaction of not only adults, but also peers. Hence a lot of conflicts. If anyone will be interested, I’ll tell you about Catherine’s examples (these are several different children: an intellectual, a soccer player, a down girl). So if you estimate your child by these vectors, you can understand where to move and how (I can also tell her examples on these examples ????). In general, she, of course, transcends boundaries and consistency, and honesty. In general, for me, these meetings abruptly a couple of books will be ???? Very, very interesting!