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♡ A marathon of femininity is my report. Day 11!

♡ CONCLUSIONS OF THE DAY

The heat and mosquitoes continue. And at the same time, everything is experienced much easier than before. I don’t know what exactly is the matter. Apparently the sum of the factors. And the mosquito repellent, which has already caught a lot. And the fact that we are actively mowing huge areas around the house. And the fact that there is an opportunity to wash, i.e. insects smell us less. In general, I wear knee-length summer dresses with open arms. Although earlier in almost winter clothes at this time of year.

The last days I have been clearing away the rubble of the house of clothes and all kinds of rags. I give a lot to weaving paths to my friend, because in my entire life, probably, I will not use my good everything. Found a bag with my mom's things that she wore when she was young. I used to watch them sometimes in my childhood when she got them from the balcony and admired them. Now everything is just right for me. And I like so much! Exactly what suits my taste! Or maybe that bag with things once laid down my taste ...

The husband gets up very early, as a result, in the quiet hour of the last days, he sleeps with Divna. Very comfortably! I don’t worry about how she’s at home, whether she woke up. Plus she learns to be not only with me, yesterday they woke up together, got dressed and went out into the street. The truth is, I'm still packing for now.

In general, days go by in labor, which makes me very happy. Workaholic all the same.

♡ ASSIGNMENT: "Your strengths and weaknesses"

Thanks to Gulnara, who sent me the file with the video, I did the previous task, i.e. diagnostics of relationships. The point "attitude towards me" suffers from me, i.e. you need to tell my husband what I want, he's not a psychic. Which I try to do more and more. Lately I've even been writing to-do lists that I would like him to do. He forgets, and every time I saw what was not done (until I wrote the list), I was very upset and annoyed. Now according to the lists, the husband has become much more efficient and the number of minor imperfections has decreased.

The point of "husband acceptance" also suffers, it is necessary to work with it. Not all character traits are pleasant, plus "mom" is a sore point. Need to work.

The item "orientation of life" is excellent, 12 out of 12.

For all other points, everything is in the region of 9 points.

I haven't done it yet, I'll do it.

♡ Ten thanks for today (Life, God, husband, yourself - whatever you like)
1. I am grateful to my husband that he cleared the thickets under the plum, where the mosquito's den was also unsightly!
2. I am grateful to my husband for responding to my requests!
3. I am grateful to my husband for completing the hanging of the curtains in the bathroom!
4. I am grateful to my husband that he courageously endures our meager table with hope for the future!
5. I am grateful to my husband that he is engaged in beekeeping!
6. I am grateful to my husband that Divnin's daytime sleep is trying to pass with us more and more!
7. I am grateful to my husband that he mows the grass in a fairly large area around the house!
8. I am grateful to Divna for her good behavior during most of the day and for her independence!
9. I am grateful for everything that contributes to an easier experience of the mosquito period!
10. I am grateful to neighbors for communication!

♡ MY GOALS

1. I want another child to appear in our family: my own or an adopted one. Or maybe he and that.
Nothing, we get along in the family.

2. I want to read more inspiring literature
Finally I threw "The Power of a Praying Wife" onto the tablet and began to read while she put Divna to bed during the day.
I read Olga Valyaeva's reports in the marathon. And an interesting post about a woman who does not use money and material benefits to a minimum. Very inspiring! Recently, I have been actively clearing the rubble of the house. I am collecting things for a friend for weaving, I have already given a lot and have collected many, many more in recent days. Clothes that I don't like, for which at least a drop of not very pleasant memories, that I don't wear, everything is there. Almost everything has already been given out for children, there is left what Divna will still wear when she grows up. And a little bit of little ones. I also put things in order on the site. I'm throwing out something.

3. I want to do exercises every morning and be with a straight posture
Yes I am trying. I'm doing the exercises.

4. In critical situations, I try to remain silent and listen to another
Yes, I am silent when necessary.

5. I want gardening and harvesting to be abundant, and at the same time a pleasure
I planted almost all white cabbage. I planted the seedlings of zucchini in empty places where the seed did not sprout in the garden.
I continue to fill the garden with new organic matter: we make a frame, then I fill it with organic matter, which will rot, and sprinkle it with a little earth. Plus, when the plants grow, we mulch.
Finally got around and my husband cleared the thickets under the plum. As soon as the house was bought, nothing was wrong There is thick grass, plum shoots and a mosquito den. Now I just have to collect everything with a rake.
Every day I spend a lot of time collecting mowed grass, I really dream of a lawn mower, so that I can mow and collect at the same time. While we mow with a scythe and collect with a rake.

♡ LINKS TO PHOTOS

The control hive has shown large yields of nectar last week
Jealous sapling
I planted in a permanent place most of the white-headed