Я тут в пробке стоял, заняться не чем,...

I was standing in a traffic jam, there’s nothing to do, and I contacted a friend in contact, and she is not a bad listener, so I told her what was happening in my introvert’s head, I never wrote before, but then they asked me in some age, I gave out everything that I think in a summary, because in my head there are far more thoughts than can be printed, in general, I am waiting for criticism, not spelling;)

Falling in love is a dangerous thing, in my opinion, this is the main reason for all parting and divorce!

Incognita
It is impossible to live without

Sergei
Of course, no one canceled it, but believe me, the more happy you are with a person, the less they happen, and then completely disappear, while disagreements come
So the main thing is to prevent disagreements, understanding what this will lead to, in other words, the goal should be "to be happy"

And here's another: the path to happiness! Not a little important, here I also have a whole concept!
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To tell?

Incognita
Come on
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Sergei
This model is something like a projection of raising a child into adulthood, and now in more detail:
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Sergei
The main core of my theory is the development, and in all understandings of the word, both in global and in private cases
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Sergei
The main ones: moral, spiritual, physical, creative, etc. It is important that this process be continuous, I will explain why:
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Sergei
A child, when parents are puzzled by his own development, take, for example, a sports club, he likes it, he is satisfied, and at the same time acquires certain skills, friends, experience, social development ... You can list endlessly ...
As soon as he has nothing to do or is busy with useless nonsense, he degrades and finds himself entertainments in a not very favorable sphere, I do not say that this is not replenished ...
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Slowly writing, I'm driving ...

Sergei
As a result, development also leads to self-knowledge, and this is not an unimportant aspect for the concept of "happiness"
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Sergei
The parents stop teaching the child when the society takes over the patronage of this action, in which he ideally meets his other half, which takes on these responsibilities.
Responsibilities - develop each other!

Sergei
And this is just a small part of the example of a sports club! When we share positive impressions, pieces of happiness, so to speak, most often we talk about our achievements (here you need to understand that when a person tells how he threw himself in cabbage soup and how bad he is, he is not happy, he is not degrading interesting things here) or indirectly hint on them, in other words, no matter how much time you spent laughing at the gum club, you will become unhappy during this time
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Sergei
The end of the first chapter.
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Chapter Two
Love is a wonderful feeling, but short-lived. For those who are happy, this does not matter, there is no need to experience it, if you are already happy (with someone), on the contrary, the idea of ​​falling in love with someone else causes a natural fear of destroying this whole, even if not perfect, own world.
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Sergei
In technical terms, if two people have the same goals, a chain reaction is launched, the graphite core of which is the small differences of fundamental personal tastes and preferences, which, in turn, are also corrected by interpersonal spiritual development, i.e. concessions, compromises, because I'm not talking about infringement of personal space, on the contrary, it should be quite free.
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Sergei
Intermission
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Sergei
In support of my theory, there is a ski theory (I just came up with it))) You rarely see a couple on a slope who have different interests, for example, one rides, the other thumps, most likely they both ride and get pleasure from this JOINT time, and if Since both of them didn’t ride before, then most likely they will choose different types, one - a board, the second - ski, so to speak, for the sake of sports interest. The exception is if one of them has been riding for a long time, at a high level, but this already applies to the previously said "personal space"
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Chapter III
Financial component
Sergei
As I previously put it, a chain reaction will directly and directly affect the development of labor and mental activity, which will positively affect the career front, be sure! This is the first, the second is to live together economically, this is elementary arithmetic, we will not go into it. Also, joint development allows us to ignore modern economic misconceptions imposed by the consumer model of the state, because one of the main products of pseudo-happiness, judging by the TV, you can buy or order at home))
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Sergei
I even assume that the necessary means to achieve the goal, and they are necessary, will appear in direct proportion to the goal itself! P.S. This chapter is necessary for my theory, although many who are mistaken will say that it is the main one.
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This is all the machinations of Coca-Cola)))