"Девушки - существа тонкой душевной организации." А так...

"Girls are creatures of subtle mental organization." And also, a weak nervous system and wild fantasies.


Most often (!) All the vagaries, absurdities, tantrums, brain

the girls’s sides toward their young people do not come from

harmfulness of character, not due to ICP or what temporary

insanity, but just because of your lack, dear men,

attention. By the way, due to the alleged reasons listed above,

the consequences of the main reason - this very lack of your attention -

may get worse .. So, let's look at the most common

a pattern of events in this situation.


Consequences of a lack of attention:


Stage 1. Initial. I’m missing, then I’m bored,

"yayayayaya skuuuchauaayayuyuyu .. .. This stage is quite favorable for relations,

this is the very portion of "lack of attention" that is even more

“warms up” feelings, and as a result - passionate meetings, fiery

kiss and so on.


You can and should apply) the main thing is not to overdo it ... because if you tighten it, you should:


Stage 2.

The state is "I'm angry", then "I'm very angry!", "I'm furious !!" .. This

the stage is no longer so favorable, or rather, it is not at all favorable for

relations, since the very whims, tantrums, already begin here

absurdities, in general - brain extensions .. Moreover, the absurdities seem

as such only for men, for girls in the minds are soooo logical

chains, men just don’t have enough imagination for them .. and the girls have it

hoo how much .. yes even when so much time is "free" so

put it in motion .. and now she has already screwed up for herself God knows what, from this

I’m even more angry with you ..


By the way, a man is not always aware of all this volcano of passions,

maybe she is "proud", does not show you anything, but all the delights of this

stages pour out on others, girlfriends ..


Waiting for a call, a message, she declines not to write, not to call

first one. At all. Never. Then after an hour does not stand up and writes

something insignificant, sort of like walking around ..


At this stage, everything is still easily fixable (except for the girl’s nerve cells,

Of course, which, as you know, cannot be restored), only

correct, call, write, a couple of affectionate words, assurances that

how dear you are to her, how terribly busy you are, you think of her constantly and

other - and that’s all, the disaster has passed .. The main thing is to catch on time ..

Otherwise comes:


Stage 3. The state "I scored" or "Well and figs with you, golden

fish ".. Here the girl is distracted by others - other thoughts, others

affairs, other entertainments, other friends, friends, acquaintances. Fills

so to speak, emptiness. She recalls that she lived wonderful before you.

Begins to notice other, “more attentive” people .. And here you can still

fix it, if you still do not completely delay ..

notice she notices them, but while feelings have not faded away, further

"remarks" will not work .. Most importantly, catch on time .. Although, if you

brought your girlfriend to Stage 3, maybe you don’t really need her ..


So, if you have mastered this stream of thoughts, evaluate the situation, write

your precious message, and better - call, and

better ... Yes, you yourself know everything, you are so smart here, right ??))

although not always attentive enough))


With love, NeFeminist.