Только на днях размышлял на тему, что современные...

Just the other day, I thought about the topic that modern relations are more like tug of war. They all require something from each other, all owe something to each other, but in the end they are all unhappy ... and the Society teaches this way.
When a relationship arises between a man and a woman, quite often the word OUR begins to appear in some strange context. People actually begin to claim their RIGHTS in their personal space, as well as the way of thinking, acting, and convincing their second half. There are situations like:
- oh ... you need to look at his phone ... And when he finds out about this, and he begins to make similar attempts
“Are you coming with friends?” Nooo .. don’t go! Will you drink? !! Is it easy to walk? yes anything - YOU !! This is bad!!
or - Well, you're hanging out with friends, but why can't I?
- Are you going to rest with a friend? Well, everything - an offense for half a year, and even at every opportunity, I will remember that ..

In a word, he and she are constantly trying to get into each other’s personal space, forgetting, in principle, not only about the purpose of relations, the natural purpose of man and woman, but also about all kinds of moral orders and norms, allowing herself too much verbally entering into bickering, as if with the enemy of a lifetime.

But a relationship is not a claim. It is NOT TOGETHER, it is NOT OUR, but it is Parallel, Near and practically not intersecting. From the fact that a person entered into a relationship - his "I" should not be leveled, suppressed. And no one should invade there.
You go as if parallel, each in its own self-sufficient, showing care and love for each other, you develop each other. Relations, marriage are not shackles - this is a new stage of spiritual development!

So, here is a short article that caught my eye today. Still very well understands the issue of male and female destiny O.G. Torsunov ... but now is not about him.

What is a husband? I have repeatedly asked this question of the Universe and invariably received one answer: "The husband is the one who leads a woman through life." Remember the symbol of the male - lace with an arrow. Direction. This is the only necessary function for everyone else - they can be present or not. The absolute minimum. If there is everything else, but this function is not present - it is anyone, but not the husband. Many of the functions required of the husband, in fact, belong to the pope. And an adult woman can do without them. There are almost no adult women in our culture, since there are no traditions of female initiation .....

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