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It may be strange to do such an angry and eloquent post on such a wonderful sunny day .... But still, I will do it ... Here's what is called "pained" ... So, I want to write about such a simple attribute of our life with you , as a responsibility .... Or rather, the complete absence of this very attribute in the life of most (alas !!!) people .... Of course, I have come across the manifestations of someone else's irresponsibility more than once ... But for some reason, for the last for a year I began to look more closely at people, look at their behavior, analyze and to draw conclusions .... And, alas, these conclusions are inconsolable ... Lord, why didn’t 90% of adults even hear about such concepts as “take responsibility” and “keep your word” ??? This applies to absolutely all areas of life - both personal and professional. Why do hundreds of people make promises right and left, and after a couple of days when the fulfillment of these same promises becomes not very convenient for them due to various personal circumstances, often absolutely idiotic, they disappear neatly, turn off the phones or come to you with an unhappily guilty look and tragically say so: "Sorry, it happened, but I have such circumstances ..." But what circumstances ??? Permanent hole in the head - these are your circumstances, damn it !!! Yes, here's another, for some reason many are sure that in the event of some unforeseen situation or force majeure, the first thing to do is to figure out how to transfer responsibility for solving the problems that have arisen to someone else. Here the principle works: “I’d better think of myself a hundred reasons why you shouldn’t touch me and, having pretended to be a rag, I’ll sit aside, and without me they’ll quickly ruin everything. Well, after all, there’s a man who will ruin ... Why am I ? " For me, this is just some kind of shock paradox: well, why, why does everyone think that the rest can do without him? Why is it impossible to honestly face difficulties and SOLVE problems instead of hiding behind the backs of others ??? Why is it possible to abyss, not come, do not, do not keep my word ??? You do not respect the person to whom you promised something, do you care about his opinion? Ok, that happens. But everyone probably respects themselves! But for me personally, such abominable behavior is, first of all, disrespect for oneself. “Throwing” another person is equivalent to swimming in a puddle. Yes, for me it’s so, even if it sounds pretty radical .... In general, the longer you live, the more you understand that you don’t understand anything at all ... You look and get upset, while the above-mentioned “parasites” citizens "live happily and calmly ... Well, of course, primitive people always need less for happiness ...